STOP WAITING FOR LIFE TO CALM DOWN, MAMA
You want to live a life that’s yours
One where you’re not consumed by what’s expected of you.
Yes, you love your life... but you're exhausted from constantly trying to keep up with it.
You're waiting... for the weekend, waiting for work to quieten down, waiting for the sun to come out, waiting for your annual family holiday, waiting for this manic day to be over so you can go back to bed.
Somewhere underneath all that waiting is this thought... “When do I get to enjoy my actual life?”
Freedom is creating a life you don't constantly feel the need to escape from.... peace & joy every single day feels like freedom.
Perhaps you want to be able to work on the projects you’re passionate about without being interrupted every 5 minutes.
You want to stop feeling guilty when you sit down to have a cup of tea... or resentful that you’re the only one deciding what the family's eating for dinner (AND cooking it)!
You want to stop feeling so lonely & find like~hearted people who not only understand & accept your ideas & values but support your dreams, no matter how crazy they are...
So you can embrace your weirdness in a space where you're safe to drop the mask & show up exactly as you are, in all your vulnerability, without being judged.
You don't need to find more time...
You need to stop giving away the time you already have.
Your time isn't only disappearing into work, school runs, laundry & dinner.
It's disappearing into...
“I should really…”
“I can't sit down until…”
“It'll be quicker if I do it myself.”
“I need to remind them…”
“Once everyone else is sorted…”
This is the mental load speaking.
Underneath it are the invisible rules you've been taught through societal & generational conditioning about what a good Mum, wife, employee, business owner & woman should be.
These rules are now dictating how you spend your life without you even realising it.
Unshakeable Mama™ helps you question them & release this conditioning so you create time & headspace for the things that matter to you most, for more of the things YOU want in life.
Ask yourself this...
Why does every available 10 minutes I have belong to somebody or something else?
WHO SAYS?
Who actually says we Working Mums must be, do, behave & think a certain way?
You want your life to belong to you
You want to find a way to make time & headspace for more... more fun, more presence, more laughter. MORE OF YOU.
Unshakeable Mama™ Portal is a community of highly capable Working Mums who are ready to reclaim their lives.
It's a space to make your peace, joy & freedom the priority without feeling selfish, abandoning your family or blowing your life up.
Inside...
Your time matters too.
Your dreams matter too.
Your joy matters too.
Your presence matters too.
Your own life happens too.
The aim isn't to live a life that never feels chaotic... it's knowing how to come back to yourself over & over again.
Because when you find Deep Peace within yourself, you stop needing perfect conditions & perfect work-life balance to feel free.
THE 4~MONTH PORTAL OPENS ON MON 21 SEPT...
Payments can be split into 2, 3 or 4 payments... just ask me.
From one Unshakeable Mama to another…
Hi, it's Michele!
I’ve learned that you can't control life... but you can stop letting life control you.
An Unshakeable Mama™ isn't a woman whose life always goes to plan.
She's a woman who trusts herself when it doesn't.
She can adapt without abandoning herself, even & especially when the unexpected happens.
That's why having me on your Support Team matters so much.
Becoming Unshakeable happens in the tiny choices you make every day. It happens by accepting that you can’t be everywhere, do everything, or manage everyone all the time.
It's happens when dancing whilst cleaning your teeth, asking for ideas for the weekly meal plan, saying yes to help hanging the washing, & choosing to focus on small moments of you every day.
It's in choosing yourself when the old rule says everyone & everything else should come first. These tiny choices are how you reclaim your time, your identity & your life.
I never thought I’d own a bluebell wood. I would never have believed the fun & excitement of chasing a flock of sheep out of our fields because they'd escaped from the neighbouring farm!
There’s been so much more richness, joy & presence in our lives since our move to Scotland than I ever could have imagined.
My version of FREEDOM is found in the moments of ordinary life... & I play my part by choosing myself, over & over again.
When I first started questioning the rules I'd been living by, I felt like absolutely nobody got me.
Like they thought I was just a girl with no grasp on reality. That I was too spiritual & needed to come back down to earth.
I've hired many coaches & joked that I had to pay for friends, because it felt this was the only way I was going to speak to anyone who allowed me to be me!
I thrive in spaces with people who share the same values & live a similar experience.
Where you are empowered to be yourself & show up as you are... without judgement or feeling like someone's going to criticise.
This is why collaboration sets the foundation of your journey inside Unshakeable Mama™.
Together, we shine a loving spotlight on the wins you've been too busy to see, & hold a mirror up to the areas holding you back.
The support & accountability inside invites & encourages you to ask the big questions that bring you more of what you’re looking for in your life.
You know you're here for MORE in life!
Introducing The C.A.L.M. Method™
Pillar 1 ~ Connect
Reconnect with the woman underneath the roles, expectations & responsibilities so you know exactly what you want your time for.
Gain clarity on your priorities to reflect who & what truly matters to you in life.
Who am I?
What do I need?
What truly matters?
What am I noticing?
Pillar 2 ~ Align
Reduce the mental load & question the invisible rules consuming your time.
Create new & firmer boundaries to protect your time, energy & headspace.
What is taking my time, energy & headspace?
Which invisible rules are running this?
What needs to change?
Pillar 3 ~ Liberate
Release the inherited beliefs, patterns, societal & generational conditioning that keep you over-functioning.
Master nervous system & emotional regulation to keep you focused on what you want, even when life feels challenging or chaotic.
What's making it hard to choose differently?
What do I need to feel safe to relax & receive more?
Pillar 4 ~ Manifest
Use the time, headspace & self-trust you've reclaimed to create more Peace & Possibility...
& for more of the experiences, dreams, joy & freedom you want alongside motherhood.
Where in my life have I created space?
What do I want more of now?
What small choice or action would maintain or create more of that?
Support & Accountability that meets... YOUR REAL LIFE.
The Portal gives you a gentle rhythm of coaching, reflection, community & invitations to practise the C.A.L.M. Method™ inside your actual life... I know you don't need yet another list of things to try to complete perfectly.
• Bi-weekly Check-in Calls* for Q&A, guidance & real-life support.
• Monthly Unshakeable Mama Circles* to rest, relax & receive.
• Monthly Reflection & Recalibration Workshops*.
• Private WhatsApp community with regular voice notes, prompts & support from me.
• Weekly C.A.L.M. workbooks with journal prompts & invitations to notice, question & choose differently.
• Reset Practices to use whenever & wherever they serve you.
• A repeating C.A.L.M. rhythm that deepens over the 4 months, helping you integrate this practice into your real life for lasting change.
*All live via Zoom. Replays available.
Join the Portal Community on a Self-Paced & 1:1 basis.
Additional Support Options...
• Option to receive a rolling 3~Months of continued support in the Mastery Membership on a Self-Paced or 1:1 basis.
• Monthly 30-min 1:1 Zoom calls ~ 4 per 4~Month Portal (for 1:1 only).
• Private WhatsApp support, guidance & encouragement (Mon~Fri, for 1:1 only).
Inside the Portal Community, you cannot fall behind.
Every element of the Portal is an invitation.
Nothing is compulsory, there's nothing to keep up with & there's no brownie points for attending every call or completing every journal prompt!
You're absolutely NOT here to perform being the “perfect” Unshakeable Mama... you're here to notice yourself inside your life.
You're here to notice...
~ What you're carrying.
~ What you're feeling.
~ Where your time is going.
~ The invisible rules you're automatically following.
~ The moments you abandon what you need.
~ The tiny choices where you begin choosing differently.
The changes you desire won't come from consuming more information. They'll come from seeing the life you're already living with different eyes.
That's why we don't race through the C.A.L.M. Method™ once & move onto the next thing.
We return to the same foundations again & again, each time with deeper awareness, loving accountability & support as you integrate this practice into your daily life, in real time.
ROUND 1 ~ SEE IT
We make the invisible visible. You'll begin noticing the rules, expectations, patterns, emotions & mental load that's shaping how you spend your time, energy & life.
ROUND 2 ~ QUESTION IT
Who says? You'll question whether what you've been taught is true, necessary or simply what good Mums do & uncover the inherited beliefs & conditioning underneath it.
ROUND 3 ~ CHOOSE DIFFERENTLY
Knowing isn't enough. You'll begin practising something different in real life... new boundaries, releasing responsibility, asking for support, resting before everything is finished & making choices based on what YOU actually want, need & have capacity for.
ROUND 4 ~ LIVE IT
This is where this inner work becomes more deeply part of the woman you're here to be. You'll integrate it slowly & sustainably, notice old patterns sooner, come back to yourself faster when life gets messy & keep creating more room for who you truly are & what you want.
I'm not interested in filling your head & days with more information & things to do.
I'm here to help you question what you've always accepted as true, see the choices you couldn't see before & support you while you practice making different ones.
Until choosing yourself isn't something you have to keep remembering to do... it's simply part of who you are.
That's how we build Unshakeable foundations. Not by escaping your real life... but by learning to live differently inside it.
You need me on your Support Team
You don't need another person demanding more from you.
You need someone with dedicated time & energy to see YOU.
My superpowers are...
~ Noticing the blindspots that you can't see (what's blocking you in your life & the wins you've missed).
~ Lovingly challenging the invisible rules & your boundaries when you slip back into old habits & patterns.
~ When life lifes, reminding you of what you said you wanted & the action steps you committed to. ~ Holding up a mirror when you've forgotten how far you've come & how amazing you are.
I'll of course cheer your highs... but I'll also hold you through the lows.
When you wobble, when the unexpected happens, when an old pattern sneaks back in... that's when support from me & this community matters most, so you can keep moving forwards towards more of what you want.
I know all to well that highly capable women don't need saving (I am one!) but we definitely don't need to do everything alone either.
THE 4~MONTH PORTAL OPENS ON MON 21 SEPT...
Payments can be split into 2, 3 or 4 payments... just ask me.
An Unshakeable Mama...
Most importantly... her life & time belong to her.
Even though she's still living a full, messy Working Mum life... she's mastered how to relate to it all very differently!
This is for you if…
• You’re a highly capable married or co-partnered Working Mum with a full, amazing life but feel stretched too thin from the mental load & know you want more.
• You don't want to escape your life... you want to create a life you don't feel the need to escape from.
• You desire more peace, joy, time, headspace & support without feeling guilty for wanting it.
• You love your partner & children, & are ready to rebalance responsibilities from silent endurance to real teamwork.
• You’re ready to unlearn & release from self-sacrifice, money mindset & societal conditioning that was never yours to carry.
• You want to role model self-trust, boundaries, nervous system regulation & emotional intelligence to your children… not coping & resentment.
This is NOT for you if…
• You’re looking for another productivity system to help you squeeze even more into your already-full life.
• You want someone to tell you exactly how your life should look rather than helping you discover what YOU want.
• You're waiting for your partner, children, boss or circumstances to change before you're willing to choose differently.
• You're not willing to question beliefs, expectations & responsibilities you've always accepted as true.
• You're looking for information rather than integration.
• You’re not ready to be lovingly supported, challenged & held accountable by a community of like-hearted Working Mums who can help you create change.
What will you do with your "more?"
My version of MORE has included a family move to Scotland, renovating our Victorian farmhouse & planting woodland on our land.
This has created location & time freedom... I get to choose where I work & my working hours. My next level is building financial freedom for me & my family.
Ultimately, this next level has given me a deep sense of being who I know I'm here to be... plus, the courage & self-leadership to keep growing & evolving.
It's my mission to grow & expand alongside other Working Mums... conscious, mindful women who are ready to give themselves permission to explore a different rhythm & new way of living.
Your version of more may be...
~ Regularly drinking hot cups of tea
~ Changing career
~ Starting a business
~ Enjoying a creative project
~ Growing vegetables
~ Travel or family holidays
~ Improving relationships
~ Feeling fitter & healthier
~ Watching your favourite show
~ Enjoying new experiences & adventures
~ Achieving financial independence
~ Spending more time outdoors
~ Having enough space to finally hear yourself think.
I don't & won't decide what your MORE is.
I help you question everything standing between you & having the time, space & self-trust to create it.
A Final Invitation...
STOP WAITING FOR LIFE TO CALM DOWN.
Your life is happening now...
Not when work gets quieter, when the children need you less, when everything on your to-do list is finished or when January arrives.
NOW.
Question the invisible rules.
Reclaim your time.
Create space for MORE of you.
This is your Portal to peace, purpose, permission & possibility.
Freedom is creating a life you don't feel the need to escape from.
THE 4~MONTH PORTAL OPENS ON MON 21 SEPT...
Payments can be split into 2, 3 or 4 payments... just ask me.
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